Ray has been married

to Janet Atwell for 41 years.
Has 3 sons Ray Jr, Jimmy and Steven (deceased), and a daughter Janette.
4 grandchildren.

He retired from the Marine Corps in 1992.

He and Janet currently live in Caroline County and maintain a home in Charlotte, NC also.

Baptized at Round Oak Baptist Church May 17,1964.

Ray became a Member again in 2022.
His twin sister Kay Sale and her husband Russell are also members.